Dreams do tend to follow certain patterns. For example, pregnant women have
nightmares about their future babies. Everyone gets chased sometimes (in their dreams), and it is
apparently quite common to have flying dreams in which one has difficulty
avoiding overhead power lines.
What is not dreamed about may be as significant
as what is dreamed about. We observe that certain topics and certain styles
of dream occur more frequently than others.
For example I commonly have "bird-spotting" dreams,
in which I am observing some new species of bird. It is true that I have
done some bird-spotting in the past including a seven week bout in Australia
not too long ago. Yet the dreams occur even now, when it is not a major
thing on my mind.
There may be something significant in the fact that when I do go bird-spotting
it becomes a fairly obsessive activity, and that it involves a certain type
of experience, i.e. continually seeking to see something that I have never seen
before.
Other activities and even concerns that demand
considerable attention daily nevertheless occur very rarely in my dreams. For example,
the places in my dreams are generally not the places I live in and travel through
in my daily life: they are either locations not visited recently, or they are
completely imaginary. At least one other person has commented to me that their
dreams are dominated by past life and acquaintances rather than present ones.
Some dream activities are things that one might do
but so far hasn't. For example I use to have driving dreams when I didn't drive,
and no matter how hard I pressed the accelerator (in the dream), the car would hardly move. Once
I started driving regularly, this type of dream ceased to occur.
There may be a lot that can be learned from identifying
patterns like these that occur across different individuals according to different
aspects of their waking lives, problems and personalities.